I've only ever received one trade offer (that I know of) and I probably got on the site at least a dozen times before I even realized it was there. Most of the time when I'm on here I'm on a mission (to see the differences in photo variations, base/SP's, hobby/retail, prizms etc) and then I'm gone. I don't take the time nearly as often as I should to get into the community aspect of the site. If I noticed the little notification dot I didn't think much of it because being a member of the site as opposed to an active member of the community I don't get PM's hardly ever. When I finally opened it and saw it was a trade proposal I felt terrible. I messaged them back finally, apologized and then had a major family medical catastrophe happen and didn't get back on the site for about 6 months. When I got back on I saw they had proposed and withdrew the trade again during that time. Felt terrible (again), apologized (again) but never heard back, which I totally understand. I'll probably never know what that trade offer was, but it wasn't due to disinterest or disrespect.
