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Tuesday, February 6, 2024 3:17 PM

I don’t care about it being open since it’s in unfinished. But calling me lazy because it’s bothers them even though it’s in a different section may be too far.

Dodgydave wrote:

If there were cards you specifically wanted in the transaction and despite having them listed as FS/FT a member can't find 3/4 of them, I believe you are perfectly within your rights to withdraw/move to unfinished.

I don't think there is an requirement to proceed with the transaction for one card, or three substitute cards you don't want.

I'm all for making things work for people but it sounds like you have got short shrift in the transaction so far, so you don't have to go out of your way to continue.

As for the unfinished transaction to disappear, more than half the time has elapsed already, so I guess if reducing the time it stays in unfinished by a couple of weeks is a priority to the other member reaching out to Admin would be the best/only option.

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KMack

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Tuesday, February 6, 2024 4:26 PM
I'm guessing you won't be trading with them again...

jmkidd

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Tuesday, February 6, 2024 4:35 PM
You are not in the wrong, but I am curious as to who initiated the trade? For what seems to be a very small trade 3/4 cards missing should have been caught pretty quickly

Papayanz

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Wednesday, March 6, 2024 12:51 PM

Got this message today

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jsteved

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Wednesday, March 6, 2024 1:00 PM
Sounds like someone I would not want to trade with. I was also about to point out the 60 days from last activity but you covered that in your recent screen shot, lol. I'll be honest, it bugs me too when the unfinished section has a number next to it but I'm not going to complain about it (I'm the same kind of person that can't stand the badge notification numbers on my apps on my phone).

RonEaston

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Wednesday, March 6, 2024 5:15 PM
Little John and Friar Tuck on the bridge comes to mind. ------------------------------- I'm mostly organizing over adding right now.

BSwagger

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Wednesday, March 6, 2024 7:04 PM
My 2 cents. You are probably not doing yourself any favors by digging this up again. Whether you are right or wrong those reading this might be hesitant to trade with you as well due to your taking your issue to the forums and then digging it back up again. Many won’t care but I bet some will.

Papayanz

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Wednesday, March 6, 2024 7:19 PM

I don’t have an issue with it. I’m not mad as I’m not wrong. I respectfully declined the cards he was assuming I would take. Just wanted to give a few people a laugh to go on with their day.

BSwagger wrote:

My 2 cents. You are probably not doing yourself any favors by digging this up again. Whether you are right or wrong those reading this might be hesitant to trade with you as well due to your taking your issue to the forums and then digging it back up again. Many won’t care but I bet some will.

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Mungo Hungo

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Wednesday, March 6, 2024 10:35 PM

Personally, I would be more likely to trade with the OP than if I hadn't read this thread, in part because he made a point of calling out the other trader's ridiculous "writing" style. It's a message board, so no one expects perfection, but it's important to make at least minimal effort.

BSwagger wrote:

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sandyrusty

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Thursday, March 7, 2024 2:50 AM

Last time someone ridiculed another member for his poor grammar, he was asked to apologize (a half-a**** apology followed) as the member who was singled out by the bully was known to have issues. Without knowing who the member the OP is targeting in this case of forum exposure, I am more with the camp of not wishing to trade or have anything to do with the OP.

Mungo Hungo wrote:

BSwagger wrote:

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Check my Profile page to see my 2023 Goals and my Lists of sets near completion (5 cards or less) or sets getting close (less than 100 cards missing and 75% complete).

https://www.tcdb.com/Forum.cfm/Page/B/ID/0/?MODE=VIEW&ThreadID=25745&C=0

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