As a former sports journalist I have a lot of thoughts on a topic like this and probably have a different perspective on athletes than most.
Unfortunately, I find it hard to articulate my exact thoughts/feelings without offending people as I find the general level of loathing or adoration sports fans have for athletes they will never meet, let alone know in any way worthy of forming such feelings, downright bemusing.
Athletes are just people. Like all people there are smart athletes and not so smart athletes, there are athletes who express their thoughts frequently and some who do not. Some of the former should be more like the later and vice versa.
We often seem to forget that many of these athletes are extremely young human beings who live in a fish bowl of almost 24/7 attention. Young people tend to talk more than they should and often on topics they are not as informed as they think they are. Combine that with the constant media attention and ability to create out of context soundbites and I often wonder why they talk at all.
I look at what I was like in my late teens/early 20s and shudder at the thought of having cameras and microphones constantly around.
Has LeBron said some dumb things on his time? I am sure he has but so have I (and everyone else). Has he said and acted in ways that are self-promoting and in his own interests? Sure. But so have I (and everyone else).
Has he done many good things with his platform? Sure. Many more than I have (and most others).
All-in-all he has kept his nose pretty clean given he has been in a media bubble since he was about 16.
So, to cycle back to the original question. Do I respect LeBron James? No. Do I not respect him? No. I don't know him and never will.
I save my respect for people I know and trust.
I can marvel at an athletes physical (and at times mental) abilities but I don't get too wrapped up in the rest of their package.
Like all people some do seem like remarkable people with great values and a social conscience while others appear to be abhorrent individuals and I try to give those people no thoughts at all.
On a less serious note; those who say LeBron has it "easy". Check out the pace of play stats throughout league history.
I only have stats starting from 1973-74 — Kareem's fifth season — where they started at 97.7 possessions per game/48mins and steadily climbed to a peak of 108.3 in 1986-87. Twelve of the final 16 season's of Kareem's career had a pace of over 100 possessions per game.
LeBron's rookie year (2003-04) had a pace of 90.1 and it wasn't until his 16th season that pace reached 100 possessions. After seasons of 100.0 and 100.3 pace has dropped below 100 again the last three seasons.
So, yes current players have the three point shot and a variety of rule changes over the years but they also have 8 to 20% less possessions per game than they did through the 80s especially.
I feel it is important to acknowledge the differences in style and rules across eras, but using one stat or rule as an automatic disqualifier on a players accomplishments seems rather short sighted.
LeBron, Kareem and many others all had (or still have) remarkable careers and denigrating their achievements based on the rules of the era they played in seems pointless.